ABA Family Legal Guide

Family Law

Marriage

Requirements for Getting Married

When does a couple become married?

Most states consider a couple to be married when the ceremony ends, when the officiating person says "I now pronounce you husband and wife." Failure to have sexual relations (lack of consummation) does not affect the validity of the marriage. In all states, the proper official must record the marriage license. Recording the marriage license is proof that the marriage happened.